Steph’s Eulogy

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Steph Ayson: “I Knew I want to Marry Aj Perez” 

 Steph’s Eulogy:

Steph Ayson delivered a heartbreaking eulogy at AJ Perez’ funeral held this morning. Steph Ayson shared that she and AJ first met in September 2007, met again in 2009 and officially became “on” in February 14, 2010, 3 days before AJ’s 17th birthday.

Here’s Steph’s Eulogy, transcript courtesy of OMG! Yahoo! Philippines:

“I want to be a teacher, a lawyer, and suddenly a doctor. I want to be able to write well, to sing well, and to dance well. All of those changed except one. I knew I want to marry a guy. And his name was AJ Perez.”

“I was a silly girl, writing our names beside each other. I was scribbling hearts and playing Flames and I would wake up every Saturday just to watch “Abt Ur Luv.” I would sit in front of the TV and watch ASAP. I was a fan and I would like to think I was the biggest fan he had.”

“Cheesy, but that’s AJ. Cheesy, sweet, sincere. He wanted to promise me the world, but I asked him not to. Because I was too afraid to hurt him, but he promised anyway, and he kept each one of them. He asked for my full trust. I admitted I was having a difficulty, but showed me that he knows what trust means and he’ll never do anything to break that.”

“He told me that even if I don’t say ‘I love you’ back away or show him sweetness just like he would, his exact words were, ‘I would wait a lifetime.’”

“If this is God’s way of showing me forever, I accept it… AJ taught me how to love. He was very selfless. His love was the most pure thing on Earth. It was, in every way, unconditional. And probably that’s the message here. He wants all of us to love the way he did also.”

“He made me so happy, and even to his last day, he would talk to me and tell me that ‘I want you always to be happy. I don’t want you sad. I want you to smile a lot. You know why? Because I love you.’ And I know as the days go by it will be very difficult but AJ would say he’d want us to be happy. That’s the way he lived. He was happy.”

“To my baby, you’ll always be in my heart. Thank you for making my dreams come true. I’ll take care of your family for you. And I’ll love the way you loved me.”

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Dear Future Wife:

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I don’t know where you are right now. I don’t know how you look like. I don’t know how you laugh, or how you cry. You’re probably with someone else right now. Or you might be alone just like me. I don’t know when our paths will cross. I don’t know when we can walk on the beach together, then watch stars at night and wait for a shooting star (and wish for forever if we see one, btw I’ve never seen a shooting star yet). We’ll sleep under the moonlight. We’ll watch the sunrise. I’ll cook breakfast for you. If we have kids, we’ll still do these things with them. We’ll go to church as a family, have a picnic after. I’ll teach them how to fly kites. You’ll teach them how to sing, or dance, or draw.

The list can go on forever. But I don’t know when these will happen. For now, all I can do is wait for you. And I’ll wait patiently for you. I know you’ll be worth the wait.

Love,

Your Future Husband

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Long Distance Relationships

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When you date someone far away, all you can do is talk. You talk for hours on end; getting to know each other more and more. That can also be the downfall for it, because all you can do is talk. You can’t hug, you can’t kiss and you can’t hold hands. But for all that matters, your relationship would be based on each other and nothing else. When you finally see each other, all those late nights talking turn into something else. When you’ve waited for something for so long and you finally have it, it feels good, heck it even feels amazing. The important thing that makes a long distance relationship work is the trust between the two. If there’s no trust, then it’s not going to last. Love really has no boundaries, it knows no gender, no age and no distance.

15 MUST-KNOW FACTS ABOUT BOYS.

1. Madali kaming mag-selos - Hindi naman nawawala sa lalaki ang mabilis na pagseselos. Hindi mawawala saming mga lalaki ang magselos.
2. Umiiyak din kami - Madami kasing tao ang inaakalang hindi kami umiiyak kapag nagkakaroon ng away o LQ.
3. Nauubusan din kami ng pera - Hindi purki’t kami ang labas ng labas ng pera eh, mayaman na kami at hindi kami nauubusan ng pera.
4. Mahilig kami sa Online Game - Tanggapin nyo na, na hindi mawawala samin ang mawili sa mga online games (esp: Dota).
5. Kapag tumahimik kami, madalas may nararamdaman kami - Nahihiya lang kaming magsalita ng hinanakit o nararamdaman namin. Pero madalas nasasaktan din naman kami, kung si Superman nga may kahinaan, pano pa kaya kami?
6. Gusto namin na nilalambing kami -Kailangan naman nilalambing nyo kami, lalo na kapag nagkakaroon tayo ng away, hindi yung lagi nalang kami ng kami.
7. Gusto naming pinagluluto kami -Madalas kasi kaming mag daydream kaya, iisipin namin kayo na ang FM (Future Misis) namin.
8. Gusto naming kinakantahan kami -Lalo na kapag wala kami sa mood, na tanging boses nyo lang ang makakapagpa-kalma sa amin.
9. Hindi pa talaga kami maliligo, kapag sinabi namin na “maliligo na ako.” - Karamihan sa’ming mga lalaki ganyan. Do I need to elaborate this?
10. Nawawala rin kami sa mood - Hindi lang babae ang pwedeng mawala sa mood, isipin nyo rin naman kaming mga lalaki. Paano nalang pala kung nireregla rin pala kami?
11. Palabiro kami - Kaya kung may masabi man kaming hindi maganda o hindi ganoong kanais-nais pagpapasensyahan nyo naman kami.
12. Hindi nyo mawawala sa’min ang pagka-Vain - Yung pagtingin tingin namin sa salamin o pag-aayos namin. Syempre nacoconcious din kami sa iisipin ng ibang tao sa’min.
13. Mahilig din kaming makinig ng love songs - Kaya wag nyo namang iisipin na bakla kami dahil nakikinig kami ng love songs. Madalas yun ang nagpapakalma sa’min.
14. May insecurities din kami -Kaya wag nyo kaagad kaming jinujudge dahil sa mga nakikita nyo sa amin. O kung napapaisip kami ng hindi maganda.
15. Kapag inaasar namin ang mga babae madalas may gusto kami sakanya -Kaya wag kayong nagagalit kapag inaasar namin kayo.

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Mga Types ng Kabarkada

• RICH KID - Mayaman. Maluho. Lahat ay binigay na sa kanila ng kanilang mga magulang. Lapitin ito lalo na ng mga ‘user’ friends. Dalawang klase ang mga rich kids. Yung tipong pinagyayabang ang yaman sa barkada at yung humble lang pero swabe ang pa-ambon ng kanilang yaman sa barkada. Ang madalas mong maririnig kung ika’y isang rich kid? “Palibre naman”.

• MUSE/ESCORT - Sa bawat barkada meron isang taong saksakan ng gwapo o ganda. The Face of the Group. Gwapo/Maganda. Malakas ang dating. Madalas napagkakamalang ‘head’ ng barkada. 

• THE ‘PROBLEM’ KID - Sila yung mga loko-loko. Mga B.I. kumbaga. Pero masarap at masaya silang kasama. Asahan mong mapapasubo ka sa kalokohan kung kasama mo sila. Sila yung mga ‘adventurous’, ayaw magpatali sa mga patakaran dito sa mundo.

• THE ‘PROBLEMATIC’ KID - Sila yung parating may issue sa isang bagay. Parating umiiyak. Parating may problema. Sa buhay pagibig man, pamilya o sa ibang bagay. Pero, wala namang choice ang barkada kundi damayan sila.

• JOKERS - Ang mga Jokers ang pinakamahirap hanapin na type ng kabarkada. Dahil ang pagiging joker ay hindi natututunan, innate ito. Kung pinanganak kang ‘Joker’, pinanganak kang bebenta sa tao. Kahit konting hirit mo lang, utas na ang barkada kakatawa. Ang matatawag mong isang masayang barkada ay kinakailangan ng at least isang joker.

• ANG ‘TANGA’ - Sila yung parating ‘asar-talo’ sa barkada. Parating barado, parating tablado. Sila yung mga korni humirit. Sila yung mga failed ‘jokers’. Pero masisigurado mong mahal sila ng barkada at walang ibang pwedeng tumawag sa kanila ng “Tanga!” kundi ang barkada lamang.

• PAPARAZZI - Alam nila lahat ng bango at baho ng bawat isa sa barkada. Alam lahat ng issue, sikreto. Sila yung ubod ng daldal. Pero napapasarap ang usapan kapag kasama sila. Sila yung parating may hawak ng camera kapag may lakad ang barkada, in-charge sa picture-picture. They know everything about everyone.

• THE ‘COUPLE’ - Hindi lahat ng barkada meron nito. Sila yung Nanay at Tatay ng Grupo. Minsan may mga sariling mundo. Madalas maasar ng barkada ng “Maghihiwalay din kayo!”. Ngunit kung magkaalitan o maghiwalay man sila? Humanda ka na. Apektado ang buong grupo.

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Being in a relationship is scary.

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 There are many aspects to it. It takes trust, patience, and understanding. It takes time. Sometimes. It comes with doubts. Am i good enough. Why am i so boring. Are they bored. Do they feel the same. All theses thoughts. It makes you work harder. It makes you change things up. The thought of them not feeling the same. The thought of you feeling more for them than they do for you. Its scary. The thoughts of “its going to be like last time” or the fear of losing them after coming so far. Just the fact that at anytime, they can walk out of your life. Its a pessimistic thought. But it is really true. Thats why we all have to fight for love. We all have to break barriers and tear down walls for love. We change, lifestyle changes. Things we go through to keep what we have strong. Its all worth it, if you make it worth it <3

I am convinced...

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Maswerte ka kung meron kang boyfriend na:

• Hinahatid ka sa sakayan mo pauwi. Kasi ayaw niyang mapahamak ka. Kung pwede nga lang, ihatid ka niya sa bahay niyo para sigurado.
• Handa kang ipaglaban sa mga taong hahadlang sa inyo. Yun bang “you and me against the world ang dating.”
• Ipapakilala ka sa pamilya niya. Sweet yun kasi kapag pinakilala ka niya, para na rin niyang sinabi na gusto ka niyang makasama at makasundo mo ang family niya dahil mahal na mahal ka niya.
• Hahawakan ang kamay mo kahit pasmado. Hindi siya choosy. Basta importante, mahawakan niya ang kamay mo.
• Magbabayad ng pamasahe mo kahit ayaw mo. Normal daw kasi sa lalaking magprovide. At nakakatapak ng ego kapag tinanggihan mo.
• Kapag natatakpan ng buhok mo ang mukha mo, hahawiin niya.Kasi gusto niyang makita ng maayos ang mukha mo.
• Yayakapin ka pag umiyak ka. Para tumahan ka na at malaman mong safe ka na.
• Kasasakay mo pa lang ng jeep/tricycle, itetext ka na ng “ingat ka” Just to make you smile.
• Aasarin ka, tapos pag naasar ka na, sasabihing “ang cute mo.” Trip lang. Pero sweet pa rin.
• Magtetext ng unexpected “I LOVE YOU”. Para lang maalala mong may nagmamahal sayong tulad niya.
• Tatawagan ka kahit hindi siya naka-unli call para lang kamustahin ka o i-update ka sa mga ginagawa niya. Para hindi ka magduda sa kanya.
• Proud na ilagay sa Facebook na IN A RELATIONSHIP siya sayo.Para malaman ng mga dati niyang friends ang tungkol sa inyo.
• Magpopost sa Wall mo ng mga sweet messages. Para pagbukas mo ng FB mo, pangalan agad niya ang makikita mo.
• Ginawa niyang wallpaper ang picture mo. Para araw araw pagbukas niya ng cellphone niya, ikaw agad ang maaalala niya

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Jarvis

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Okay, see this little boy. His name is Jarvis, and he’s my second cousin. When he was five, he was diagnosed with cancer. The cancer eventually disappeared, and he was alright. Then, only two years ago, the cancer came back. He got worse, then the cancer disappeared again.

Last year, they found a tumour in his brain. They told his parents that he wouldn’t survive. But he did, and the tumour went away.

Jarvis was at a Christmas lunch, and I was talking to him. His biggest dream? To go to Singapore and to see Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, part two.

Only last month, the cancer returned. In his ribs, in his kidneys, in his brain, in his spine, in his legs. And they gave him only a couple of months.

He’s gotten worse, and they gave him only weeks.

Yesterday, he couldn’t move because of pain, and now they’ve given him days.

I don’t know why I’m posting this, but the only thing I ask is that you could please keep Jarvis and his family in your thoughts. Pray for them. 

I shouldn’t daydream.

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It takes a special kind of person to fuck me over. 

First, I’d have to like them. Everything from the smell of their skin to the way their nose scrunches when they don’t want to scratch their itch. It’s like Can you get any more perfect? And the answer is yes. They do things you’ve only dreamt a person would do. They captivate the every essence of everything you wish to find in a person. All their morals and values you appreciate. It later gets to the point where you can start to picture a future with them. You know, the kind of future that involves two people. The kind of future where you need another to get to your goals, to reach your ambitions and to become complete.  You aimlessly wander around your head seeing yourself happier than you can ever imagine, until you find out that that future will no longer be. 

They decided it won’t work, got up, and left. And there you are feeling stupid over the things you thought you had. It’s called heartbreak. I’m not over mine, nor will I ever be. I learnt to suppress it; push it to the side and focus on things irrelevant to it. I guess I shouldn't daydream.

Let’s grow old together… beginning with today.

• Let’s work slowly with each other and build a relationship that we can both enjoy being a part of. 
• Let’s share love and understand that neither of us is perfect; we are both subject to human frailties. 
• Let’s hold each other close and whisper though the night—pledging our love, honoring our commitment. 
• Let’s encourage each other to pursue our dreams, even when we’re weary from trying. 
• Let’s expect the best that we both have to give and still love when we fall short of our expectations. 
• Let’s be friends and respect each other’s individual personality and give one another room to grow. 
• Let’s be candid with each other and point out strengths and weaknesses. 
• Let’s understand each other’s personal philosophy, even if we don’t agree. 
• Let’s lie awake long into the night sharing our innermost secrets. 
• Let’s be friends as well as lovers. 
• Let’s laugh at time and plan with each other and wonder how we ever got along without this love we’ve found. 
• Let’s never take for granted these moments that we’ve shared, but always be reminded of how intensely we have learned to live, how completely we have learned to love. 
• Let’s grow old together… and look back on life and smile.

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Mula sa Puso

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Energy

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15 Acronyms you hear everyday, but you never really stopped to find their meaning.

1. ZIP code: Zone Improvement Plan code

2. M&M’s (chocolate): Mars & Murrie’s

3. Re: (in an email): Regarding (not reply!)

4. T9 (on cellphones): Texting on 9 keys

5. HTTP: Hypertext Transfer Protocol

6. Laser: Light Amplification by the Stimulated Emission of Radiation

7. JPEG: Joint Photographic Experts Group

8. IMAX (movies): Image Maximum

9. Radar: Radio Detection and Ranging

10. Lego: Leg Godt (“play well” in Danish)

11. Ok: Oll Korrect (“All Correct”)

12. Wi-fi: Wireless Fidelity

13. CAPTCHA (this): Completely Automated Public Turing test to tell Computers and Humans Apart

14. RSVP: Répondez S‘il Vous Plaît (“Reply Please”)

15. Yahoo! (the website): Yet Another Hierarchial Official Oracle

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Ganto magToothbrush ang...

Mayaman:

Mahirap: 

Bobo:

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Dear Phone:

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Chair

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Coke Float

Expectation

Reality

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SWEET

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Would you hold my hand when we go to the mall? Would you kiss me in public? Would you act dorky with me? Would you chill with me rather than chill with your boys once in a while? Would you take care of me? Would you show me off to the world? Because, hell, I would.

I love the fact that I have you in my life. The fact that you’re my “special someone”, my lover, my valentine, my boyfriend, my shoulder, my best friend. You’re mine.

I may be really clingy some times, but I just can’t help not being next to you. I just want you to myself. I want to be in your arms, all safe and warm. I’m in like with you and I’m glad I have someone amazing and wonderful as you.

Decisions

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The Loneliest Whale in the World.

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In 2004, The New York Times wrote an article about the loneliest whale in the world. Scientists have been tracking her since 1992 and they discovered the problem:

She isn’t like any other baleen whale. Unlike all other whales, she doesn’t have friends. She doesn’t have a family. She doesn’t belong to any tribe, pack or gang. She doesn’t have a lover. She never had one. Her songs come in groups of two to six calls, lasting for five to six seconds each. But her voice is unlike any other baleen whale. It is unique—while the rest of her kind communicate between 12 and 25hz, she sings at 52hz. You see, that’s precisely the problem. No other whales can hear her. Every one of her desperate calls to communicate remains unanswered. Each cry ignored. And, with every lonely song, she becomes sadder and more frustrated, her notes going deeper in despair as the years go by.

Just imagine that massive mammal, floating alone and singing—too big to connect with any of the beings it passes, feeling paradoxically small in the vast stretches of empty, open ocean.

DID YOU KNOW?

• -Kissing is healthy.
• -Bananas are good for cramps.
• -Chicken soup actually makes you feel better.
• -It’s true. Guys do insult you if they like you.
• -Having someone rub your tummy when it hurts actually helps.
• -89% of guys would want girls to make the first move.
• -Girls love it when guys hug them from behind the waist.
• -Chocolate makes you feel better.
• -Girls love it when guys let them wear their hoodie or jacket.
• -Guys think it’s cute when you mess up.

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Egg

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Whales at Sea

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This is me at age six with Taima, one of the Orca Whales at Sea World Orlando.

I grew up around these animals. One night, after the park had closed, while my father finished up his work, I played catch with a fish and a 14,000 pound whale nicknamed Tilly, the whale now notorious for the incident last year with Dawn Brancheau. I would throw the fish into the main tank; he would let it float to the bottom, swim down and pick it up delicately, rub it against the glass in front of my hands, and toss it back over the wall for me to catch again.

I grew up knowing all their names. I knew how much the trainers loved them; and how they never forgot that they were wild animals.

I knew that no one was allowed to swim with Tilly; not because he was violent, but because he had witnessed two other whales’ violence at a young age and Sea World would not take the risk of finding out if he had been traumatized.

I knew that the morning when they found him with a man on his back, dead, he was swimming around his tank frantically making distress calls. A mentally ill man had climbed into his tank overnight, died of hypothermia, and Tilly didn’t know what to do, other than lift him to air where he wouldn’t drown.

I knew Dawn. And I know that seeing PETA protesting outside Sea World this morning would have broken her heart.

But most of all, I know that an animal the size of an elephant that can give kisses to the cheek of a six year old girl is not a monster.

Staying off Tumblr until the heat from Sea World’s accusers dies down; the misinformation and ignorance tears me apart.

THIS IS AMEN!

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