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Thursday, April 28, 2011

Steph’s Eulogy

Steph Ayson: “I Knew I want to Marry Aj Perez” 


 Steph’s Eulogy:
Steph Ayson delivered a heartbreaking eulogy at AJ Perez’ funeral held this morning. Steph Ayson shared that she and AJ first met in September 2007, met again in 2009 and officially became “on” in February 14, 2010, 3 days before AJ’s 17th birthday.

Here’s Steph’s Eulogy, transcript courtesy of OMG! Yahoo! Philippines:

“I want to be a teacher, a lawyer, and suddenly a doctor. I want to be able to write well, to sing well, and to dance well. All of those changed except one. I knew I want to marry a guy. And his name was AJ Perez.”

“I was a silly girl, writing our names beside each other. I was scribbling hearts and playing Flames and I would wake up every Saturday just to watch “Abt Ur Luv.” I would sit in front of the TV and watch ASAP. I was a fan and I would like to think I was the biggest fan he had.”

“Cheesy, but that’s AJ. Cheesy, sweet, sincere. He wanted to promise me the world, but I asked him not to. Because I was too afraid to hurt him, but he promised anyway, and he kept each one of them. He asked for my full trust. I admitted I was having a difficulty, but showed me that he knows what trust means and he’ll never do anything to break that.”

“He told me that even if I don’t say ‘I love you’ back away or show him sweetness just like he would, his exact words were, ‘I would wait a lifetime.’”

“If this is God’s way of showing me forever, I accept it… AJ taught me how to love. He was very selfless. His love was the most pure thing on Earth. It was, in every way, unconditional. And probably that’s the message here. He wants all of us to love the way he did also.”

“He made me so happy, and even to his last day, he would talk to me and tell me that ‘I want you always to be happy. I don’t want you sad. I want you to smile a lot. You know why? Because I love you.’ And I know as the days go by it will be very difficult but AJ would say he’d want us to be happy. That’s the way he lived. He was happy.”

“To my baby, you’ll always be in my heart. Thank you for making my dreams come true. I’ll take care of your family for you. And I’ll love the way you loved me.”

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Real Men

Dear Future Wife:


I don’t know where you are right now. I don’t know how you look like. I don’t know how you laugh, or how you cry. You’re probably with someone else right now. Or you might be alone just like me. I don’t know when our paths will cross. I don’t know when we can walk on the beach together, then watch stars at night and wait for a shooting star (and wish for forever if we see one, btw I’ve never seen a shooting star yet). We’ll sleep under the moonlight. We’ll watch the sunrise. I’ll cook breakfast for you. If we have kids, we’ll still do these things with them. We’ll go to church as a family, have a picnic after. I’ll teach them how to fly kites. You’ll teach them how to sing, or dance, or draw.
The list can go on forever. But I don’t know when these will happen. For now, all I can do is wait for you. And I’ll wait patiently for you. I know you’ll be worth the wait.
Love,
Your Future Husband


Chocobed

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Long Distance Relationships


When you date someone far away, all you can do is talk. You talk for hours on end; getting to know each other more and more. That can also be the downfall for it, because all you can do is talk. You can’t hug, you can’t kiss and you can’t hold hands. But for all that matters, your relationship would be based on each other and nothing else. When you finally see each other, all those late nights talking turn into something else. When you’ve waited for something for so long and you finally have it, it feels good, heck it even feels amazing. The important thing that makes a long distance relationship work is the trust between the two. If there’s no trust, then it’s not going to last. Love really has no boundaries, it knows no gender, no age and no distance.

15 MUST-KNOW FACTS ABOUT BOYS.

  1. Madali kaming mag-selos - Hindi naman nawawala sa lalaki ang mabilis na pagseselos. Hindi mawawala saming mga lalaki ang magselos.
  2. Umiiyak din kami - Madami kasing tao ang inaakalang hindi kami umiiyak kapag nagkakaroon ng away o LQ.
  3. Nauubusan din kami ng pera - Hindi purki’t kami ang labas ng labas ng pera eh, mayaman na kami at hindi kami nauubusan ng pera.
  4. Mahilig kami sa Online Game - Tanggapin nyo na, na hindi mawawala samin ang mawili sa mga online games (esp: Dota).
  5. Kapag tumahimik kami, madalas may nararamdaman kami - Nahihiya lang kaming magsalita ng hinanakit o nararamdaman namin. Pero madalas nasasaktan din naman kami, kung si Superman nga may kahinaan, pano pa kaya kami?
  6. Gusto namin na nilalambing kami -Kailangan naman nilalambing nyo kami, lalo na kapag nagkakaroon tayo ng away, hindi yung lagi nalang kami ng kami.
  7. Gusto naming pinagluluto kami -Madalas kasi kaming mag daydream kaya, iisipin namin kayo na ang FM (Future Misis) namin.
  8. Gusto naming kinakantahan kami -Lalo na kapag wala kami sa mood, na tanging boses nyo lang ang makakapagpa-kalma sa amin.
  9. Hindi pa talaga kami maliligo, kapag sinabi namin na “maliligo na ako.” - Karamihan sa’ming mga lalaki ganyan. Do I need to elaborate this?
  10. Nawawala rin kami sa mood - Hindi lang babae ang pwedeng mawala sa mood, isipin nyo rin naman kaming mga lalaki. Paano nalang pala kung nireregla rin pala kami?
  11. Palabiro kami - Kaya kung may masabi man kaming hindi maganda o hindi ganoong kanais-nais pagpapasensyahan nyo naman kami.
  12. Hindi nyo mawawala sa’min ang pagka-Vain - Yung pagtingin tingin namin sa salamin o pag-aayos namin. Syempre nacoconcious din kami sa iisipin ng ibang tao sa’min.
  13. Mahilig din kaming makinig ng love songs - Kaya wag nyo namang iisipin na bakla kami dahil nakikinig kami ng love songs. Madalas yun ang nagpapakalma sa’min.
  14. May insecurities din kami -Kaya wag nyo kaagad kaming jinujudge dahil sa mga nakikita nyo sa amin. O kung napapaisip kami ng hindi maganda.
  15. Kapag inaasar namin ang mga babae madalas may gusto kami sakanya -Kaya wag kayong nagagalit kapag inaasar namin kayo.